If men and women understand this, they’ll never treat each other the same way again

  If something made you cry when you were a child, your experience was probably a little something like this: If you were a boy: you would cry, then go to your mom or dad for some comfort, and would hear something along the lines of: “Stop crying! You’re a man! Men don’t cry. Stop […]


Instead of pornography and masturbation, try this

I’ve talked a lot about the evils of pornography and how the end results are the exact opposite of what people want for their sex life. Most men and women who watch pornography do it for the sexual excitement. “We’re trying to spice up the relationship” is a common buzzword. But of course, married couples […]


The love life blunders of the wise king Solomon

  Meditating this morning about Solomon and his love life fiascoes, I asked myself: Why was he so wise, so wealthy, such an expert administrator of the nation, but extremely dumb in his choices concerning love (which were the cause of his ruin)? Plus, when he asked God for wisdom to govern the people, God was […]


Thought #20 — The model Family

Part of the “40 Thoughts of Jesus” series – start reading from #1 here…   The Son is not able to do anything on His own, but only what He sees the Father doing. For whatever the Father does, the Son also does these things in the same way. For the Father loves the Son […]


What are the similarities between a lover and a pool?

  A friend of mine told me this story. He has a pool at home and one day he went to the store to buy chemical products to keep the water of the pool clean and healthy. He went to the store and started grabbing things from the shelf: granulated chlorine, pH elevating solution, purifier, […]


When someone loves another, do they cheat on them? The answer will surprise you

  The couple entered our counseling room. The husband had a look of shame, failure and defeat on his face. He even had difficulty lifting up his head. His shoulders slumped; he sat in front of us as his wife sat beside him. She had obviously cried a great deal the last couple of days. […]


How to end an affair before it finishes you off

Your marriage is not going well. Routine has entered your lives and there’s no sign of it letting up any time soon. The sex, when it happens, is like that feeling you get when you pay your taxes: resentment because of the fact that you couldn’t escape that unpleasant situation. Every day that goes by […]


What you can learn from a vacuum cleaner

  Allow me to make an observation of a law of nature which has a profound life lesson. According to the definitions that chemistry and physics give, “a vacuum is the absence of matter in a certain region of space.” When everything is removed from an area so literally nothing exists there, not even air, […]


I’m over here saving the planet and she wants to talk!

  That’s how a husband expressed his indignation recently in one of our Love School programs. He was referring to the times he would spend in front of the TV playing video games, while his wife asked for attention. He thought her absurd for interrupting him in the middle of “saving the planet,” — an […]


They weren’t friends on Facebook

  He couldn’t walk. He had been paralyzed for a long time, all he could do was drag himself, sit or lie down. For any other form of mobility he depended on others to carry him. But who had the time for that? Who cared? Four friends, yes, four men cared. And one fine day, […]