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What are the similarities between a lover and a pool?

  A friend of mine told me this story. He has a pool at home and one day he went to the store to buy chemical products to keep the water of the pool clean and healthy. He went to the store and started grabbing things from the shelf: granulated chlorine, pH elevating solution, purifier, [...]

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When someone loves another, do they cheat on them? The answer will surprise you

  The couple entered our counseling room. The husband had a look of shame, failure and defeat on his face. He even had difficulty lifting up his head. His shoulders slumped; he sat in front of us as his wife sat beside him. She had obviously cried a great deal the last couple of days. [...]

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How to end an affair before it finishes you off

Your marriage is not going well. Routine has entered your lives and there’s no sign of it letting up any time soon. The sex, when it happens, is like that feeling you get when you pay your taxes: resentment because of the fact that you couldn’t escape that unpleasant situation. Every day that goes by [...]

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What you can learn from a vacuum cleaner

  Allow me to make an observation of a law of nature which has a profound life lesson. According to the definitions that chemistry and physics give, “a vacuum is the absence of matter in a certain region of space.” When everything is removed from an area so literally nothing exists there, not even air, [...]

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I’m over here saving the planet and she wants to talk!

  That’s how a husband expressed his indignation recently in one of our Love School programs. He was referring to the times he would spend in front of the TV playing video games, while his wife asked for attention. He thought her absurd for interrupting him in the middle of “saving the planet,” — an [...]

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They weren’t friends on Facebook

  He couldn’t walk. He had been paralyzed for a long time, all he could do was drag himself, sit or lie down. For any other form of mobility he depended on others to carry him. But who had the time for that? Who cared? Four friends, yes, four men cared. And one fine day, [...]

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A tip on how to attract the person you love

  Every day we receive desperate requests asking for help on how to get the love and attention of their partner back. It’s usually women asking for help, but sometimes even men. The stories are quite similar. The relationship has been turbulent, many mistakes have been made by both parties, but one has hardened their [...]

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22 years of marriage – the party

Time truly flies when you’re having fun! Cristiane and I celebrated 22 years of marriage on July 6th. But the party happens every day. Yes, when marriage is good, every day is a celebration. Waking up next to her is like opening up a champagne bottle. Receiving compliments is like music to my ears. Making [...]

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You’re even more beautiful in person

  “You’re even more beautiful in person!” You haven’t seen anything… You have to learn to see the beauty beyond your partner’s skin. Many people who meet my wife say, “You’re even more beautiful in person than on TV!” I know they’re referring to Cristiane’s physical beauty, besides her smile and graciousness. But they don’t [...]

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Nobody uses shoes

Perhaps you’ve heard of the story of the shoe vendor who travelled to India on business in order to explore the new market. Arriving there, the vendor contacted his company: “Schedule my trip back. There’s not much to do here. No one uses shoes in India.” The company brought the vendor back and sent another [...]

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