An Interview to Jornal Expresso

Questions from Bibiana Maia, a reporter from Jornal Expresso An Interview with Renato and Cristiane Cardoso Why do you think you are a role-model? We don’t think we are “role-models”. We are just a couple who’s gone through a lot of problems during our first 12 years of marriage, found an efficient way to solve […]


The Bulletproof Marriage Movement

  Bulletproof Marriage is no longer just a book, course, audiobook or souvenir. It has become a movement, a way of thinking and conducting your marriage; not just something you read, come to a momentary conclusion then move on to the next big thing. It has become something that changes the way you look at the world and your love relationship; it makes you think more about your […]


If men and women understand this, they’ll never treat each other the same way again

  If something made you cry when you were a child, your experience was probably a little something like this: If you were a boy: you would cry, then go to your mom or dad for some comfort, and would hear something along the lines of: “Stop crying! You’re a man! Men don’t cry. Stop […]


Why Claudia cheated on Marlon – 4 lessons

  * Claudia and Marlon are fictitious names, but the story is real.   Claudia was hardworking, independent, ambitious and outgoing. She knew what she wanted. If she went after something, she’d get it. She made friends easily. She exuded life. She was married to Marlon for eight years. He was the opposite of her […]


My daughter, my son and the “cobra effect”

  “My dear daughter, study hard, make sure you do well in school, finish college, invest in your professional career, do not do as I did. Be independent and never rely on any men.” “My son, study hard, be somebody, make lots of money, for without money, you’re nobody in this world; and make sure […]


Why do men take long to get help?

  Here’s a fact that’s plain to see: When a couple is going through a crisis, usually it is the woman who makes the first move to get help. In fact, even before the crisis begins, any little issue she is confronted with in the relationship, she’ll probably mention it to her best friend at […]


The love triangle

  Every day, we are subject to the laws, rules of social conduct and behavior that regulate the order among people. It is no different when it comes to the relationship between a man and a woman. Yes, there are commandments, laws that once respected and obeyed will empower the couple to accomplish the so […]


Why did you not tell me about this?

  If you are married and your spouse has to find out things about you from third parties, your marriage is very bad. Never ever let your partner in the dark about where you are, with whom you are, at what time, where you are going, your plans, your purchases, your expenses and earnings — […]


The least a man can offer his wife

  This one is to illustrate that a woman is not as complicated as she seems: A man woke up with a terrible hangover and a throbbing black eye. He turned to the other side of the bed and, instead of his wife, he found a red rose with a note attached to it: “Honey, […]


23 years of marriage taught me this

  We will soon celebrate 23 years of marriage, and through working with couples on a daily basis for several years, I have learned one thing: a happy love life does not depend on luck, Cupid, finding the right one, or a person’s belief in God. Those who think it is a matter of luck […]